3. Not ALL AMPs provide the same service! Some are full-service (whorehouses), others hand-job factories, and others yet LEGIT, so please don't generalize: the "good girls" don't appreciate being lumped together with the whores.
There IS a degree of crossover and I know that makes a lot of (rookie) customers confused and frustrated. And outsiders are left to make up what they THINK goes on inside.
4. That business about crank-calling AMPs and making fun of their accents is juvenile at best, I'm sorry.
Many customers, to address our local feminist's concerns, ARE racist and chauvinistic jerks who either can't get laid in the real world or have a SO who wears the pants (so frequent in the West).
But being an AMP regular doesn't mean you're scum. It may mean you're sick of feminists, though.
5. Background? I have gone to DOZENS of AMPs. I befriended girls and "dated" others. I have nothing but respect for them and the owners. What they do is not easy! Especially when the posts here confirm all the prejudice against and misundertanding of Asia in the West at large.
Yes, I did get therapy in every sense of the world from them: from Thai massage (=yoga) to fantastic foot rubs and backwalks. Of course, I also did get more "happy endings" and GFEs ("girlfriend experiences") from those exploited and heavily-accented pros than from ANY of the snickering AMATEURS out there.
Let me address that other bit about the slave owner who forces poor women to prostitute themselves against their will... Many owners are former providers themselves who saved enough money to open their own parlor. It is NOT for nothing that the girls call them "sister" or "mother". It's very much a woman's world.
I know that people like to think otherwise, but most Asian men, if involved at all, are only investors in the business (some legit doctors illegally "rent" their business license).
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6. That question of choice is a good one. Who has a choice? Find me two philosophers who agree on this. We're all slaves and victims, mostly of ourselves.
These girls do make a choice to deal with traffickers in order to get to America and earn a better life here. Yes, they could keep breaking their back covered in leeches in a rice paddy and for peanuts. But beware of stereotypes: I met one who had studied in France. The money's good and we can all fall on hard times.
7. If your boyfriend/husband has discovered parlors, especially AMPs (they are omnipresent, easy, cheap, and a limitless supply of girls easier than you)... You're done. Once a monger, always a monger. We all go through phases, but the temptation will always be there. AMPs are ADDICTIVE. I have seen a guy destroy two marriages because of that. And yes, both parties are at fault.
8. So why are we talking about them so much, or putting them down and threatening boycott of this "unfair" competition to non-Asian parlors and relationships?
Why do non-Asian women HATE Asian girls (forget Asian providers) so much? What is the appeal to your men and customers? Are these guys all closet pedophiles and irresponsible jerks who condone human-trafficking?!
I'll give you my very personal answer here. And I'll pass on calling western females castrating and gold-digging harpies, lest YOU call me prejudiced (wink).
Asian women are feminine in their physicality and manners. They remind one of a different world where men were men and women, women. They create in those, yes, modest, darkened rooms (you can keep fancy decors, state licenses, and western attitudes) a one-hour haven, a respite from gender-wars and a sex-obsessed and frustrated society. They sell human touch and they sell it cheap. I have made more than one very happy by giving her what she saw as an outrageous tip, and what I described as the wage she would rightfully earn if her skin was white.
Is it always so rosy? Um, no. Win some, lose some, you know? It's a woman's world - deal with it. Sometimes the magic isn't there, and sometimes it's because the customer before you was a cheap jerk. Sometimes the girl is clearly burnt out. You move on to the next experience. Cheap and addictive, I tell you. The crack of the physical realm.
Now few first generation Asians (the others have been westernized and therefore corrupted by our "values") would even talk to a pie-face like me. And a lot of Asians can be materialistic and superficial. So I leave the "good girls" alone and thoroughly enjoy the society of the "bad" ones found in AMPs. I am not the only one... Sorry.
cj said "Anon,
Put it this way... I would NEVER approve of my boyfriend getting an erotic massage. And I do it for a living!" You mean handjobs you to men on a daily basis while having a boyfriend without their knowledge? who's cheating who?
This blog post is written entirely on suspicion and the author has no idea what she's talking about. Sexworker that has "no experience" in anything else...i.e. Lazy and needs to exploit the male urge.
Anyhow, here's the deal. I'm sure there may be a couple places in the country that are entirely unethical and may send the women back (or worse) although this would be in the tiniest minority you could imagine! Are you kidding me?! They aren't just donking these girls off after they don't bring in a tip one day or if they close down. Give me a break and stop promoting your own little slutty business.
Many of these girls get out and see the real world. They are brought in under debt, that they agreed to in order to have somebody else pay for their transportation and initial establishment in the United States. This is how they work it off and many of them work it off quite quickly which is why regular customers see quick turnover on girls working in the establishments. Not because they were shipped back "or worse." Its because they paid off their god damn debt that they agreed to in the first place, and they are living in the states.
Slut.